Human life revolves around harmonizing Pride with Passion.
Pride starts to fade and passion takes precedence as we grow older. Everyone
knows there is distinct difference between the two, then why there is need for
harmony. Why we didn’t attempt to synchronize it at the very beginning. Why
very few succeeded at the same. Why we always speak about passion but rarely
about pride.
It evolves from basic human nature for independence, recognition
and acceptance. We are born and raised in social setup and try to be part of
same. Irrespective of whether an introvert/extrovert, we want acceptance from our
peers, family, friends, relatives, etc. The means of achieving this defines
whether a symphony exist between our Pride and Passion.
The most important factor which defines whether you can
harmonize Pride and Passion is talent. If your talent exist in the area of
passion, there is synchronization between Pride and Passion. However this
wouldn’t be true for majority because of societal norms and disconnect between
ambitions and reality. For e.g., in a cricket frenzy nation, every child had passion
for cricket and would have dreamt to be a cricketer. Very few even attempted to
make career out of it for either the lack of talent or support. Many would have
felt bad to leave their passion however would have realized later in life that
it was a wise decision.
Pride is important for human being for simple reason that
nothing tastes sweeter than success. Any success big or small gives you the
confidence and lays path for bigger things in future. It becomes irrelevant
whether it’s in field of passion or not. For e.g., I was school topper in
mathematics in 10th Standard and was rewarded with ₹ 500/- in annual
event. I never expected to be part of event as I hadn’t score full marks and
overall was just an above average student. The Pride in seeing all your
teacher’s expression when they least expect you to be there is priceless even
if mathematics was not my passion.
Passion is important to explore your inner self. It can led you to unexplored terrains in a
completely nonchalant manner. It’s like
that wonderful dream sequence which you aspire to make it real at some stage in
life. It’s not restricted by any tangible or intangible boundaries and invokes
the real ecstasy in you.
Pride is more extrinsic in nature compared to Passion. Pride
is often undervalued for the simple reason that it’s an end of journey. It’s
human nature to give importance to things which we aspire to rather than things
which are accomplished. Pride is permanent in nature and no one take it away
from you. Your achievements are forever and even death can’t it take away. Passion gives you the reason to look forward in
life and make your dream turn into reality. It takes precedence once you are
content with Pride and look forward to explore inner self. However, Passion
without Pride is equivalent to vehicle without wheels, no matter how good the
vehicle is it can’t lead you anywhere.
As a great philosopher once said,
Work towards the Pride
and it would provide you the means to walk on the path of Passion.